Category Archives: Controversey

…in this category I start it, or try to.

Sh*t People Need to Stop Assuming About Shy People and Introverts

A list some of the most frustrating comments and assumptions I have come across regarding my reserved behavior: 1.  We need come out of our “shells”. No, we don’t.  Stop telling us what to do. 2.  We are stuck up. … Continue reading

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Let’s Be Real About “Race”

When it comes to dating and attraction, we do tend to be more attracted to certain “races” and physical features than others.  We don’t always verbalize these preferences because it might offend people, but it’s true.  I won’t lie – … Continue reading

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She’s Just Not That Into You

Since I started my blog, I developed a liking for looking through various ‘dating’ blogs on the site.  There is a lot of enjoyable material out there.  I like reading blogs written by both girls and guys.  In the guys’ … Continue reading

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Dating Advice Hates Us

Play hard to get.  Be approachable.  Don’t text right away.  Don’t sleep with him on the first date.  Don’t be too easy.  Don’t be too reserved.  Don’t be intimidating.  He probably doesn’t approach you because you’re unattractive.  He won’t approach … Continue reading

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The Stigma on “Boomerang Kids” is Culturally Biased

Leave it to another ignorant Yahoo article to inspire one of my rant posts.  However, I feel like this one – titled “How long is too long to live with your parents?” – embodies some popular perceptions that I would … Continue reading

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Beauty and…other things

I’m just going to go ahead and say here that judging people based on how attractive they are is the EXACT SAME offense as judging people negatively based on how unattractive they are. In other words, people need to stop … Continue reading

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The Nice Guy Cliche

I can say, as of now, that I am fortunate to be seeing a nice guy.  I have also dated nice guys in the past, though for various reasons, the partnership did not work out.  (I did, however, once date … Continue reading

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