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For the Clueless Guys

Something I often hear about, and from, guys is that men are “clueless” and “oblivious” to signals that a girl is interested in them.  I understand that the realm of nonverbal communication and differences in personalities is very nebulous.  However, this … Continue reading

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You Are Not Alone in Being Alone

Like I have mentioned before, I like sifting through the dating blogs on this site.  I read blogs by both men and women.  The most interesting thing to note is that 99% (I totally measured that) of the bloggers feel … Continue reading

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Self-Respect Killed 99 percent of My Life Problems

I feel that growing up, we are conditioned to care a lot about pleasing others.  This is not so much an explicit goal of our guardians, but a byproduct of how we are raised.  We have to fit in with … Continue reading

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What Happened and Didn’t Happen When Losing My V-Card

I lost it at the tender age of 18.  To a lot of my peers, this is really late.  However, for me it was the right time.  There was no way I was ready for sex in high school. In … Continue reading

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Let’s Be Real About “Race”

When it comes to dating and attraction, we do tend to be more attracted to certain “races” and physical features than others.  We don’t always verbalize these preferences because it might offend people, but it’s true.  I won’t lie – … Continue reading

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She’s Just Not That Into You

Since I started my blog, I developed a liking for looking through various ‘dating’ blogs on the site.  There is a lot of enjoyable material out there.  I like reading blogs written by both girls and guys.  In the guys’ … Continue reading

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Dating Advice Hates Us

Play hard to get.  Be approachable.  Don’t text right away.  Don’t sleep with him on the first date.  Don’t be too easy.  Don’t be too reserved.  Don’t be intimidating.  He probably doesn’t approach you because you’re unattractive.  He won’t approach … Continue reading

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