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Self-Respect Killed 99 percent of My Life Problems

I feel that growing up, we are conditioned to care a lot about pleasing others.  This is not so much an explicit goal of our guardians, but a byproduct of how we are raised.  We have to fit in with … Continue reading

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What Happened and Didn’t Happen When Losing My V-Card

I lost it at the tender age of 18.  To a lot of my peers, this is really late.  However, for me it was the right time.  There was no way I was ready for sex in high school. In … Continue reading

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Let’s Be Real About “Race”

When it comes to dating and attraction, we do tend to be more attracted to certain “races” and physical features than others.  We don’t always verbalize these preferences because it might offend people, but it’s true.  I won’t lie – … Continue reading

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She’s Just Not That Into You

Since I started my blog, I developed a liking for looking through various ‘dating’ blogs on the site.  There is a lot of enjoyable material out there.  I like reading blogs written by both girls and guys.  In the guys’ … Continue reading

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Going Dutch

Should guys pay for first dates? Is it normal to expect someone you barely know to treat you to an expensive dinner? Maybe it’s because I didn’t really start dating until college, but this cultural standard always seemed strange to … Continue reading

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Why Coffee Dates Rule

For me, the perfect first date is just going out for coffee.  Here is why coffee (and/or tea) dates are the best: 1.)  You don’t get interrupted by a waiter/waitress every 10 minutes, and just get to have a comfortable … Continue reading

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Beauty and…other things

I’m just going to go ahead and say here that judging people based on how attractive they are is the EXACT SAME offense as judging people negatively based on how unattractive they are. In other words, people need to stop … Continue reading

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